So….all these women….losses and sadness and self-reliance [in the family].  I will have to let all this sit. Thank you for your role in clarifying this confusing line.  My trust in the constellation is intact, now I need to find the courage to release this heavy heritage.  More than anything, thank you for your gentle way.  You gave me the space to share information which doesn’t resonate much with those around me and you were able to make some sense of its pertinence to my life today.  You will always be part of my puzzle which is beginning to look like something after all.